This post is right on the money. One day while talking to a guy friend who was complaining to me that it wasn?t fair because ?nice guys finish last? and ?it?s always the jerk that gets the girl?. I set him straight right then and there. Pretty much all the girls I know that are in a commited, long term relationship, it is with a nice guy who worships the ground they walk on. The jerks only get the girl temporarily, a few months maybe 1 year max, but then it all falls apart because they are selfish, egotistical bastards who screw everything up. But eventually? the girl ends up with a nice guy, those are the relationships that last anyways.