I have had this happen several times. I have had several responses ? one time (1st date) he asked me 4 or 5 times to "Let's just get married and make it work", at the end of the date, I asked him what he would say if I had said "yes" ? he said probably freak out. Another time, he kept asking if we could just elope to Vegas, and skip dessert. I just told him frankly, "Hell no". The last time was after a few weeks of dating ? but I really think this guy has something, so I told him "sure we can talk about it and have a very long engagement period." He is still aorund, so I guess that worked!